Tuesday, 3 September 2013

Ruling on Haram Relationship in Islam (No boyfriend No girlfriend)

Ruling on Haram Relationship in Islam (No boyfriend No girlfriend)

By reading this doesn’t make u muslim   just  read and have brief idead of muslims AND what dey actually are ???

Islam clearly divides members of the opposite sex into mahram (relatives that, by law, you cannot marry) and non-mahram (those who are marriageable). It is haram to mix freely with non-mahramand, therefore, having a relationship before marriage (boyfriend or girlfriend) is strictly forbidden.
There is no such thing as “dating” in Islam. When young Muslims are able to marry, they are encouraged to find a suitable partner for marriage, following strict rules of courtship, and always keeping the intention of marriage at the forefront of any interaction.

Muslims are also required to lower their gaze when coming into contact with a non-Mahram, as stated in the Holy Qur’an: “Tell believers to lower their gaze, and tell the believing women to lower their gaze.” [Qur’an 24:30, 31]

If a Muslim brother or sister is ready for marriage it is usual for them to ask friends and family if they know of anyone suitable. If a potential partner is found, then meetings between the couple take place in a chaperoned environment. The Prophet Muhammad (all Allahu ʿalayhi wa sallam صلى الله عليه وسلم‎) said, “Not one of you should meet a woman alone unless she is accompanied by a relative (mahram).”

“A woman (or man) may be married for four things: for her wealth, for her noble descent, for her beauty or for her religion. Choose the one who is religious, lest your hands be rubbed with dust!” (Bukhari and Muslim) –

“And among His signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: Verily in that are signs for those who reflect. (QURAN 30:21)
Abu Hurairah narrates that the Messenger of Allah (May Allah bless him and grant him peace) said “when one with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage then accede to his request. If you do not do so then there will be temptation in the earth and extensive corruption”. (Tirmidhi)

 “And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent …” (An-Nur: 31) 

 "No one of you should meet a woman in privacy unless she is accompanied by a Mahram (i.e., a relative within the prohibited degrees).''
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Hadhrat Ma’aqal (May Allah be well pleased with him) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said:  That a needle of iron should prick your head is better than that you touch a non-Mahram woman.  (Mo’jam Kabeer Tabarani, Hadith No. 16880; Kanz Ul ‘Ummal, Kitab Ul Hudood, Al Fasluth Thani, Fit Tasamuhi Wal Ighdhai Fil Hudood, Hadith No. 13065).

Women impure are for men impure and men impure are for women impure; and women of purity are for men of purity and men of purity are for women of purity: Such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision. [Qur'an 24:26]

The Prophet sallAllahu aalyhi wa sallam said: “If one of you were to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle it would be better for him than touching a woman whom he is not permitted to touch.” [Tabaraani, 20/212; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 4921]
There is no doubt that this is an act of zinaa, because the Prophet said: “The eyes may commit zinaa, the hands may commit zinaa, the feet may commit zinaa and the private parts may commit zinaa.” [Imam Ahmad, 1/412; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 4921]
Is there anyone more pure in heart than Muhammad? Yet still he said, “I do not shake hands with women.” [Imam Ahmad, 6/357; see also Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7054, and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Daar al-Kitaab al-’Arabi edition]
And he said, “I do not touch the hands of women.” [Tabaraani in al-Kabeer, 24/342; see also Saheeh al-Jaami', 7054 and al-Isaabah, 4/354, Dar al-Kutub al-'Arabi edition]
Aisha radhiAllahu anha said: “No, by Allah, the hand of the Messenger of Allah never touched the hand of a (non-mahram) woman. He received bay’ah (pledge of allegiance) from them by word only.” [Muslim, 3/489]

Sahih Al-Bukhari HadithHadith 8.641        Narrated byIbn Umar
Allah's Apostle met 'Umar bin Al-Khattab while the latter was going with a group of camel-riders, and he was swearing by his father. The Prophet said, "Lo! Allah forbids you to swear by your fathers, so whoever has to take an oath, he should swear by Allah or keep quiet."

Malik said, "There are people who say that an oath is not acceptable with only one witness and they argue by the word of Allah the Blessed, the Exalted, and His word is the Truth, 'And call in to witness two witnesses, men; or if the two be not men, then one man and two women, such witnesses as you approve of.' (Sura 2 ayat 282). Such people argue that if he does not bring one man and two women, he has no claim and he is not allowed to take an oath with one witness."

O Prophet!
Tell your wives and your daughters and
the women of the believers to
draw their cloaks (veils) all over their
(i.e.screen themselves completely except the
eyes or one eye to see the way). That will
better, that they should be known (as free
respectable women) so as not to be
annoyed. And Allah is Ever Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

“And those who accuse chaste women of adultery and then do not produce four witnesses — lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed Allaah is Forgiving and Merciful".” [Quran 24: 2-5]
The Messenger of Allah (salAllahu alaihi wasallam) said -

"The best amongst you are the best in good moral character."

[Al-Bukhari] Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said: "I guarantee a house in the middle of Paradise for a man who avoids LYING even if he were JOKING..." [Abu Dawud Book 41 #4782] & “Woe to the one who speaks & LIES in order to make people laugh; woe to him, woe to him.” [Abu Dawood, al-Tirmidhi & al-Nasaa’i with a good isnaad]

"And whoever does righteous deeds, whether male or female, and he/she is a believer - they will enter the Garden, and not the least injustice will be done to them." 
(Qur’an, 4:124).

Allahumma ya wadodo ya zil arshil majidi ya mubdeeyu ya muyeedu ya falun lima uridu ya zil izzati lali la turamu wal mulkil lazi
ya mayn ala arkanu arshihi ya mogesoo agisnee(3)----dua talab any wish
innaka ali lkuui shayein kadeer

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